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If you do what is the best place to do this? Would you prefer to watch someone you know or a complete stranger? Would you do this online?
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Re: do you enjoy watching men masturbate?
Fri, September 18, 2009 - 7:08 AMStrange men masturbating in public are creepy when you're a child and tedious in a disgusting kind of way as an adult - there's nothing sexy about it to me at all. Men who do this are like rapists in that they think they can impose their body/penis/desires on others without their consent or interest (and it's not uncommon for violent sex offenders to start off with this kind of behavior because it is offensive and oppressive and often inspired by a hostility towards women). I'm comfortable with nudity and bodily functions but I'm not interested in watching someone take a crap while I'm on the bus or out for a walk in the park either.
Now, if I'm having consensual sex with someone I'm attracted to or watching a video it can be a turn on but it has a lot to do with the sexual dynamic with the person and our relationship and not simply the act itself. I've got to care about your desire to be interested in sharing it - can't say that I care about the desires of random (and always unattractive) men who feel they have the right to masturbate in public since it's a hugely selfish act (and a sign of much creepier tendencies). Can't say that I have any interest in watching strangers masturbate online either (whether they're hot or not) - that kind of thing seems to be more of a guy thing (though I could be wrong about that but it's not something women I know are into but lots of gay and straight men have told me they are since it's easy and free).
As a man, do you think it's okay to just randomly masturbate in public if you feel the desire? -
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Re: do you enjoy watching men masturbate?
Fri, September 18, 2009 - 8:35 AM"Now, if I'm having consensual sex with someone I'm attracted to or watching a video it can be a turn on but it has a lot to do with the sexual dynamic with the person and our relationship and not simply the act itself."
The difference (to me, of course, other women may feel differently) between a porn video and a random stranger is, of course, that it's a choice to watch a video and it's a private activity (or a chosen public one) while someone wacking off in public while you're busy getting on with your day is an intrusion and not a choice. It's, ahem, thrust upon one and intended to be a public act and imposition. Granted, men are at a total physical disadvantage in the area of getting off in public generally speaking since men need to whip it out and up and women don't (but then it's a private act even if done in public so it's a bit like comparing apples and oranges). If you're an exhibitionist and no one will willingly play with you, pay someone for goodness sake!
Oh, generally speaking, gay porn is better if you want to watch men jerking off or having sex since it's made explicitly for that purpose and the men are much, much better looking. Straight porn is generally shot from the male perspective since it's still generally made for men and reflects mainstream male sexual desires. Gay porn is shot from a male perspective too but the man is objectified in the way women are in straight porn (but then men rarely are since they're meant to represent the porn viewer and his fantasies). -
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Re: do you enjoy watching men masturbate?
Sat, September 19, 2009 - 3:35 PMi would never masturbate in public but i do like women who i dont know asking me to masturbate for them -
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Re: do you enjoy watching men masturbate?
Thu, October 8, 2009 - 3:19 PMWhat the other ladies said goes for me- especially seconding Fifi about the intrusion factor.
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Re: do you enjoy watching men masturbate?
Sat, September 19, 2009 - 11:37 AMa/ yes
b/ where ever we feel comfortable sharing private intimacies
c/ only someone I am already sexually intimate with
d/ no