I came across this article & wanted to share it, even though I'm at the risk of being Vanilla!

The hottest couples don't just have great sex — they have embarrassing sex, and make-up sex, and wild, can't-walk-the-next-day sex, and more. And the thing is, every kind of sex is crucial for your bond – yes, even couldn't-quite-stay-awake- to-finish sex.
Here's how. By Amy Spencer
lifestyle.msn.com/relations...clerb.aspx
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Cher
California
  • Re: 8 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Should Try?...

    Mon, June 30, 2008 - 5:28 PM
    that is funny.
    • Re: 8 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Should Try?...

      Mon, June 30, 2008 - 7:55 PM
      Embarrassing Moment sex? I don't mind cracking up mid sex if one of us rips a fart or something. I guess I am too comfortable to be embarrassed.
      • Re: 8 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Should Try?...

        Mon, June 30, 2008 - 8:44 PM
        Re: Embarrassing Moment sex? I don't mind cracking up mid sex if one of us rips a fart or something. I guess I am too comfortable to be embarrassed.

        Ditto here Minx
        LOL
        • Re: 8 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Should Try?...

          Mon, June 30, 2008 - 9:04 PM
          Maintenance Sex & Make up sex? Sex shouldn't be "maintenance" in my opinion. As for make up sex I don't think anything is worth fighting over. I personally haven't experienced on and off relationships so I am not interested in "make up" sex either. I am passionate, not angry ; ) Maybe its just me though...
          • I've never been a "make up sex" person - make up cuddle sure, but make up sex? No thanks...

            I totally get the "maintenance sex" part though - in previous relationships I've always been the one with the high sex drive, but now things are more evenly matched. Even with that he is a morning sex person and I am more of an evening sex person.... if we waited until both of us were horny at the same time we'd have a lot less sex, so our solution is to have sex morning & evening ;-) With kids in the house it's not crazy hanging from the chandelier sex.... that's what sex days are for!
  • I despise make-up sex. The last thing in the world that I feel like doing after a fight is having sex. I don't fight with my partners often, I'm much more inclined to discuss then scream and if my partner likes to throw tantrums I won't stick around long, but when I do fight it's over something I feel strongly about and I feel icky and wretched and so completely NOT sexy. No. I need to wait a couple of days after a fight before I feel like having sex with ANYBODY, even myself.
    • me too. I don't want anyone to touch me when I'm angry much less have sex with anyone. bleh. and it takes me a bit to come down and get back to the place where I feel comfortable with them.
      • hm, theres a difference for me between someone trying to have sex with me while im still upset vs. when we've truly worked through stuff. the latter usually makes me feel closer to the person, so thats ranged from sweet lovemakin to hot hot adrenaline sex.

        as for the rest of the types, i glanced through it quickly but really, why not? if you can take your relationship through different emotions AND it involves sex, uh, yeah ok. : )
        • For me it's still post fight or we're over it. There isn't a whole lot of in-between, and afterward is a return to our previously scheduled romance NOT a form of reconciliation, and I really don't want them to bring up whatever it was we fought about even if it's just to apologize. That instantly kills the mood all over again.

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