I was reading this on the web.
www.suppressedhistories.net/arti....html
If the US were defeated by a Muslim country, would you wear a veil or would you make the sacrifice it takes not to wear one?
www.suppressedhistories.net/arti....html
If the US were defeated by a Muslim country, would you wear a veil or would you make the sacrifice it takes not to wear one?
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:55 PM"Nawal al-Saadawi remarked that "makeup is the post-modern veil," pointing out its near-compulsory use in certain contexts. That was certainly my experience growing up in the Midwest many decades ago. It remains so in the workplace, at the employer's whim, according to a ruling by the California Supreme Court in 2000. The judges upheld the firing of Darlene Jesperson, a longtime bartender at Harrah's Casino in Reno, for refusing new requirements that women wear lipstick, face powder and mascara on the job. This court decision also allows employers to dictate dress, hair length, and other grooming decisions for their employees."
wow yeah I can totally see that. Makeup is used also to shame woman I think. I think the key in all of these issues, is choice. If you make a woman wear something or make her not wear something you are taking away her rights and trying to control her.
If suddenly veils were mandatory in the united states I would absolutely be working on important issues because it would mean that our rights had been crushed...but I have the feeling I'd have more pressing issues than the veil it's self that seems to me to be more of a symptom of problems than being exactly a problem on it's own. I mean it can hold up and reinforce horrors, and it is a horror on it's own if forced, but I think it is not the biggest issue even if it's the one we see as the barometer of a woman's freedom. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 4:52 PMHmm, I think we do similar things to men though. It may not be makeup, but it may be a suit, tie, short hair, and a clean shave. Some companies are paying their employees as much for their image as for their skills. Casinos are one of those places. You KNOW when you apply for a casino that a certain look will probably be expected, or demanded, of you. It's show business as much as it is anything else and in the entertainment industry both men and women are hired for how they look, or can make themselves look. Now, if she got fired from a call-center for not wearing makeup that might be a different issue, but it still is the employer's right. It's not discriminating against a trait that the person cannot change, but it is demanding compliance with certain dress codes as a condition of employment. Me, I'll never work at a place with that strict of a dress code, it's personal choice, but I can understand why some of them have the dress codes they do even if I don't particularly agree with it.
I would also like to note that in the decade I lived in the Midwest (South Dakota) I never knew of anybody but strippers who was actually required to wear makeup. In fact, most places seemed to think less of a woman who wore too much makeup or wore it all the time. Of course, I also didn't know anybody who worked at the casinos.
I also would not have too much of an issue with going veiled most of the time in public. I think it's silly, but there are other things that would be much more important for me to work on and going unveiled would not allow me to do so. I mean, how is it so terribly different from a lot of America's nudity laws? It's just different/more pieces that are required to be covered. I would have just as much of a problem with us outlawing the veil. The things I would have a problem with are issues like being subservient to males, never speaking to males I did not know, never speaking up in public at all, etc. I can still be myself in any kind of clothing and I can actually kind of appreciate the mystique the veil fosters and that it insures males do not treat women differently based on their physical appearance. Clothing norms are present everywhere, though more radical in some places than others. Clothing does not bother me too terribly much so long as it is not too uncomfortable (and, though you may not believe it, when the weather is REALLY hot going completely covered is cooler than going naked as the clothing insulates you AGAINST the heat if the air is above skin temperature) and though I love playing with it subtle things have great impact in places with strong taboos whereas blatant nonconformity simply elicits reactionary responses.
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:05 PMThere is no way I would conform to a religion that I don't practice.
I would move to another country, not sure where.....but I wouldn't
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:27 AMwhat I know of Canada I really like. Plus my tribe Momma lives there so it must be a friendly place! and they have health coverage(yes I know it has issues) and they get to say such cool stuff!
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:40 PMI feel enough ties to this country that I'd stay here.
When Bush got elected (first time) I said I'd move to Canada. After the "election" I said "Hell NO!!! This is still my country and someone has to be the voice of reason!"
I'm not a gun-toting apacolipto, but this is My country too!
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Re: Would you wear one?
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:10 PMYour question made me think of a bit I saw in Adbusters. It was a woman in a burqua next to a tan, skinny woman in a bikini striking a sexy pose. The text asked "which of these women are repressed?"
After learning what the veil represented to a Muslim woman, I considered wearing one. Aside from the repression we usually hear about, the veil can actually be very freeing. No hair to worry about :)
And there is something kind of sexy about saving somethings for your lover. I know, I know, you have no sexual freedom..........that's a can of worms I'm not into opening right now.
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:59 PMWhen I was in the process of joining the Peace Corps, I was made an offer to be placed in Tunisia. The mandatory veil, and all it symbolizes to me - was one of the reasons for turning it down and taking my chances on the next offer.
If I was unwilling to do it for two years overseas, I certainly wouldn't do it here in America.
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:25 AMYeah, I think it's all about choice and what it means to that women. I like that there is a movement in some of the veil wearing areas to make it not mandatory on religious grounds because as they point out it means nothing if it's mandatory. it is not a show of faith if you have to wear it. I think that is something alot of religious groups miss about stuff. If you make people do it...it doesn't mean anything.
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:39 AM> And there is something kind of sexy about saving somethings for your lover. <
How are you going to attract a lover when you look exactly like every other burka bag on the block? I'd don't think burka wearing women have any choice about who their lovers are, their parents or tribal elders decide that. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:56 AMHmm I am definitely creeped out by the whole burka thing and the whole no choice thing and the partners being chosen for you and forced on you thing.
But I'm finding I'm having a bad reaction to the idea that if you looked like everyone else how would you attract someone? I mean I do know that some part of attraction is physical, a vital part infact. But I think that it would be really interesting and cool to see how attraction changed if the attraction was based not on looks but on communication and behavior. I'm not saying that the women who are in burkas have that. Or that I would ever want to be in one. I can see the dehumanizingness of that. It would be horrible for me to not be able to express my personality and look like me to people. But I still see how it could be very cool to have people at least begin an attraction to you based not at all on your looks. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 12:50 PMburkha wearing women are some of the most exquisite women on this planet. very genetically gifted. many of them make the "choice" - whatever that means - to weak bhurkas. and many of them differentiate themselves with small things. their eyes for example. i will never forget this stunning image of a woman in yemen one early morning all covered in black and just her eyes showing - she had eyes like a tiger and just more expression in them than i have seen in many, many eyes.
also bhurkas vary by where you live. in saudi you have less freedom, they are more strict than other places. in iran women experiment and "rebel" against the muslim imposition - irunis were not islamic by origin - by letting their hair show, slightly, or wearing different coloured bhurkas, etc. plus there they dont always cover their entire face, just their head. dubai is even more liberal in some ways. sometimes women just cover their heads, and wear shirts (albeit full sleeve) and jeans. but the jeans are high couture, for example, and the shoes are their own world.
it might sound silly to some people that these women differentiate with these tiny little changes but in my mind it really isnt that different from women here who try to differentiate with their itsy bitsy bikinis. : )
if you look like everyone else then small nuances gain a lot of weight. people flirt a lot more with eyes, with subtle expressions of their personality. it is a beautiful dance in its own right. women in bhurkas absolutely are more expressive in very subtle, yet powerful ways. in some ways they have to be.
i do agree that the fundamental factor for me, also, is about choice. though im not really sure what that means, when you place the concept of that "choice" in another culture. you may be "allowed" to not wear a bhurka but there are social implications to that. my kashmiri roommate in india had grown up in saudi yet defied convention by not covering her head while she lived in india. and that was ok. her sister covered her head, it was her own choice. and that was ok, probably considered more pious. but it was her choice. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 7:16 PMThanks for saying the things I meant to say :)
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 9:44 PMi love it when that happens : )
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 3:51 PM"How are you going to attract a lover when you look exactly like every other burka bag on the block? I'd don't think burka wearing women have any choice about who their lovers are, their parents or tribal elders decide that."
that comes across as a very uneducated perspective. its like saying all asian (or white, or black, whatever) girls in school uniforms look the same - they dont. burkha wearing women may look like any other "burkha bag on the block" to you, but there are very distinct differences.
and while i agree that there are many examples of women - around the world - not having choices about lovers, that too is an over generalization imo. muslim women may have more limited legal / social recourses compared to the western world, but the educated most certainly seek out and choose their lovers. they just seek different things in their lovers, religious views being an important area of compatibility for many women.
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So American
Sat, May 10, 2008 - 4:40 AM"How are you going to attract a lover when you look exactly like every other burka bag on the block?"
Oh, I dunno. You could try using your mind and your personality. I hear some folks are into that. -
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 5:06 AMMyriad - "Oh, I dunno. You could try using your mind and your personality. I hear some folks are into that."
Well said, along with your other posts. You bring up some great points.
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 5:02 AMBobby - "How are you going to attract a lover when you look exactly like every other burka bag on the block? I'd don't think burka wearing women have any choice about who their lovers are, their parents or tribal elders decide that."
Funny, this post actually made the idea of wearing a burka kind of appealing simply because it positions all a woman's power, worth and attractiveness in the physical - which is one reason that burkas came about anyway, to hide women's attractiveness so men weren't tempted. What you may not understand about arranged marriages (which seem to still happen in some Christian sects too) is that the boys don't get any more choice than the girls most of the time.
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 9:49 PMWell, speaking from the other side, I don't see why any woman should have to cover up the beauty that heaven has bestowed upon her to comply to a man's demands of "modesty". If the guys don't like it, then they can look away. -
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 4:54 AMAre you sure they are complying to a man's demand of "modesty?" I know that is why a lot of countries insist on it now, but the Muslim lady I know in Rapid said that she wore the burka for two reasons: 1) because men became weak int he face of female beauty and could not function when a woman's power was exposed and 2) because she wanted her unveiling to her lover to be more special and more intimate than if she had shown herself to every man walking down the street. The dance of the seven veils doesn't make an impression if the woman starts out wearing tiny little hankies, and a woman who slowly undresses just seems sexier than a woman who is already naked. Well, to me anyway.
Would I want to do that? I don't know. It would be interesting to try for a time but I must admit that I am afraid to because of the reaction my fellow Americans have to that article of clothing. Would I want it REQUIRED? Hell no! I also like doing the naked pagan dance around the fire!
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 4:47 AMPutting this question in the context of being oppressed by a conquering enemy kind of creates a bias, doesn't it? How about if evil aliens landed and forced all the women to wear Nixon masks? (Since this is being framed as female only oppression.)
If the US were defeated by Christian extremists, would you object to the oppression of women and make the sacrifices needed to keep your freedom? Ultimately American women are more likely to face oppression instigated by American Christians (and do already) than by Muslims - things like the ongoing attempts to overturn Woe vs Wade, for instance.
Besides, not all Muslim women wear veils.
Personally I'm not a fan of theocracies - whether they're run by Muslims, Christians or Buddhists.
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 5:39 AMGood point. Many convents still require the nuns cover their hair and many of the conservative Christian sects view exposing skin below the neck as sinful. We don't, for the most part, make those taboos legal (though, again, we aren't permitted nudity because that one spot is oh so naughty) but there is a strong social stigma against women who dress too skimpily. Yeah, men may like it in some contexts, but don't walk down a dark alley in a micro-mini. They'll say "She was asking for it." It's the same assumption that a woman dressed in less than the social norm is loose and without honor. -
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 6:25 AMI'd offer up the gasping horror that occurs when women use their boobs to feed their children in the US. To me that indicates a general cultural attitude that the boob exists purely for male pleasure - so much so that it's seen as offensive when a boob is desexualized (or are so incapable of seeing a boob as anything but sexual that breastfeeding becomes a sexual act to them!).
We - meaning women and the men who love us - have also fought long and hard to have the right to vote in our respective "free" countries, to make choices about having children (the most fundamental woman's right, that American foreign policy funded by American tax dollars actively opposes both at home and abroad) and so on. The US government has been active in it's oppression of women, and was also instrumental in supporting the Taliban (against the Russians in Afghanistan) and aiding their takeover of a moderate, Afghani government and society where women played a large role and had power. Sure I've got more rights than my mother and grandmother did, that's because we've been working at having more rights for generations.
Though I guess if we keep everyone afraid of "those evil people out there" then they'll be distracted from the subtle and very obvious oppression of women in our own culture...and our rights that are being not so slowly eroded (if we look at how long it took to win them). I don't say that to try to minimize or downplay any of the homophobic and sexist oppression elsewhere, just to point out that the real dangers lurk much closer to home. I'd also like to point out that it seems to me that most societies that oppress women also oppress men - I'm not sure that being cannon fodder is really that much more glorious than being a breeder.
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 12:20 PMFifi you caught me. Yes I intentionally framed it that way. For women who aren't used to covering up, to be required to do so would be oppression.
And like SV and others said, the oppression is the underlying problem to be confronted.
I agree with those who said that they would conform but work against the oppression and the oppressive issues.
I don't believe I could go along with the full chador type covering. Even the bhurka is a little too extreme for me. BUT I've seen some very beautiful versions of veils on women from India. I love the silky, fluttery cloth with the embroidered finishes. I admire the lacy/net versions with flowers appliqued on them. This version looks very feminine and flattering. It keeps the head covered for modesty but doesn't make the wearer invisible. If it were suddenly the law I'd opt for this version. Though I'd hope that life never changed so radically for us here that this was required.
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 12:37 PMdefinitely the christian extremists are working hard to make sure the laws here enforce their ideas of what people should do. They do it all sneaky and in things that you aren't supposed to see everyday so they can then turn around and talk about america the free.
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 12:51 AMThis was well-detailed in the horrifying novel "The Handmaid's Tale", by Margaret Atwood, in which a religious extremist oligarchy has taken over the country and reduced women to chattel slavery status. -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 6:46 AMThanks, T.E, and I'll second the recommendation. It's a horrifying story and an important book. Anyone who hasn't yet, should read it. -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 9:34 AMI think I've blocked it out. I know I read it but I can't remember any details at all. I know that is because it would give me nightmares not because it was not good. -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 11:00 AMWell one thing's for sure we'd have our own little underground resistance going on, say, in our sister Tribe...
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 11:46 AMas I mature the more I understand the value of flowing and flexing with the times on the surface and having roots of steal underneath.
Thank you for posting this Blue, it got me thinking about things I hadn't thought about in a long time and I realize how different what I believe now is from what I believed then...which was that no way would I wear it even if it meant death because people must be brave enough to stand up for things out where people can see them! Like the man in front of the tank in Tiananmen square. Crap just thinking about that makes me cry. I do admire that so much! but I'm a mom now and I have to leave that kind of protesting to other people and really choose my battles. My first responsibility is to my children I can't be a martyr without breaking my commitment to them. Plus martyrs are overrated. -
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 4:56 PMMartyr is just a fancy word for dead. We can accomplish a whole lot more by staying alive. There is a time and place for death, certainly. Later. -
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 1:54 PMand the live ones are just whineybutts!
I do believe it was you who liked to ask people to get down from the cross someone needed the wood. -
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Re: Would you wear one?
Wed, May 14, 2008 - 7:25 PMHehehe...I still enjoy asking that.
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Martyrs
Tue, May 13, 2008 - 5:35 PMOooh, that reminds me of a poem I wrote back in elementary school (isn't it amazing how we know shit as kids that it takes us years to re-learn after our parents and the public school system get done with us?) that was called "The Martyr's Tongue." The basic gist was that the martyr's tongue is useless because once they have done their final act they can never speak up against injustice again and must depend upon others to give meaning to their sacrifice. They can no longer struggle or advise or explain. They are simply gone in one last epic statement that may or may not be interpreted correctly or listened to. Or somesuch nonsense like that.
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Wed, May 14, 2008 - 1:54 PMtotally! I find things I had years ago and read them and go...I knew that then? why did I have to learn it again then?
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Random Aside
Sat, May 10, 2008 - 5:43 AMIt just occurred to me that most of the new batch of icons I whipped up do, to a certain extent, mimic the look of a veiled woman. I love eyes, and when everything else is taken away they are so terribly intense! The likeness was not conscious on my part but in light of the current conversation I find it amusing. -
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 12:28 PM<The likeness was not conscious on my part but in light of the current conversation I find it amusing.>
It is kind of amusing, but I didn't post it on your behalf. However I agree with you that the eyes can be very intense. I was using my StumbleUpon toolbar and the site popped up. The author obviously loves her culture and sees the beauty of the practice. I was wondering how American women would feel about both the veil and the law/peer pressure to wear it.
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Sat, May 10, 2008 - 4:00 PMOh no, I never thought this thread was for me. I just found the topic even more amusing when I realized I was unconsciously synthesizing that aesthetic in my chosen representation, and me being arguably even more "free" in my physical self expressions than the average American.
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Mon, May 12, 2008 - 12:03 AMI know Max Dashu, the woman who runs that site. She is amazing. She knows everything I want to know about. It's really hard not to continually ask her questions whenever I see her. I don't think she's Muslim.
I like to think that I would fight and not wear the veil, but if it came down to life or death, I might choose life. -
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